How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?

i asked him he still loves me he says yes but i dont feel it and he says that its just meeh. i dont feel his presence no more. it hurts so much that i know hes love has lessen but i dont know how to deal with it? i still live with him still have sex once a week or twice and live with the children but actually spending time together is not there. it is so difficult to enforce and talk to him about how i feel. you tell him something he will joke around and says that he will never change. i have the possibility of being pregnant and i know for a fact he will not work double job. at least a full time that he has now and a part time. on his day off it seems so gold to him that it is his day off dont bother him. this week i am going to have the same days off with thim but i don't feel like telling me because he will then depend on me on taking FULL CARE of the children, laundry, and cooking. even the cars he doesnt even check for fluids or anything air on tire nothing. his typical day of the week come home from work, watch tv and play videogames have dinner then go back to tv. on his day off scheduled when he gets home go to the laundrymat and wash clothes fold and go back home he puts the clothes away and then watches tv. next day kids have school wakes up make breakfast and i have to take the children to shool( i just got home from work).

how do i get things out of him. it hurts to feel that he doesnt love me, he hasnt told me but action is so strong that it is giving heartache.

he says and iknow he is sticking to the words he had said. %26quot;I will not be the one to break the marriage it will be you%26quot; He says that to me all the time but he is making me want to break the marriage.

i pentioned him and brought him to the US. i know he is a very curious man and ambitious. he didnt have everything in our country so now he is here he wants everything looking nice.

If i tell him i want to separate he will says hurtful words. such as %26quot;Yea, thats what i have been wanting to i dont' want you blah blah. He knows the words to use to hurt my feelings.%26quot;How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?People should always feel some love from someone who says they love you. Your spouse most of all. I have been in this situation myself. In my case it never got any better. I went through years of unhappiness. You should make a decision about what you want for the future in your life. If he can't go there with you, and is unwilling to talk about it, make that decision and go for it. Love should never make you hurt like this day in and day out.How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?Don't waste money on the sterile enviroment of a counselor's office, get a sitter for a couple days and take a fun trip together. Much more fun and stimulating that sitting in front of someone your mother's age talking about your sex lives. Imagine sitting in an office with Dr. Ruth vs. Vacation?How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?take a vacation, just you guys. no kids. you will prob. have a great time together. also, he might be going through midlife crisis or something. talk to him about itHow do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?Wow i'm sorry to say this but usually when one partner feels a loss like this of the love their guts trying to tell them. unfortunalty we don't always listen cause we don't want to believe it ourselves. (your not spending time as a family) another possible baby won't keep him with you.



take these warning signs to heart though start an action plan a safety net for yourself and the kids. you owe it to them and yourself! save money seperate account



you wrote: how do i get things out of him. it hurts to feel that he doesnt love me. (yes it hurts love and be wonderful or rip our hearts out) you can't get anything out of him if hes not willing to share his feelings



you wrote: %26quot;I will not be the one to break the marriage it will be you%26quot; He says that to me all the time but he is making me want to break the marriage.(and thats his plan} mental cruelity until you can't take it anymore



you wrote: pentioned him and brought him to the US. (YET another reason he will make this marriage your failer)

Yea, thats what i have been wanting to i dont' want you blah blah. He knows the words to use to hurt my feelings.%26quot; (yup he is going through the motions bare min of marriage now he has cashed out emotionally distanced himself from you the family



now what do you want? things to be what normal again? NOPE not going to happen where you a way he was able to live n work in the USA? used?



you have to be strong now for the kids and start thinking of them and you if he is being this way whats the point of sex even? why treat him???



start going out building the relationship with the kids don't ask him to join you either start seeing friends gaining emotional support hun its not your failer its his!



get a plan in place as a safety net



warm regards



you wrote:How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?Sounds like you two need counseling.How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?For Pete's sake-do not even THINK of bringing another child into this mess.How do you know when your spouse lose interest / love ?When there is TOO MUCH communication gap, then there is a problem in the relationship.

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