I came home from work. All went well at first. Then, we started bickering. We are in the process of buying a house. He asked me why I didn't send the w2's, paystubs, etc. I didn't know we were supposed to send them. I thought they only needed one form and could wait a little. Then it turned into an arguement. I am thinking -really, we could still send the paperwork over. It's the not the end of the world. He just kept sulking and saying over and over why didn't I send it. We then talked about dinner. I said there isn't much food left. He mentioned we have sausage in the freezer. I said we have fresh torellini that has to be made or else it will go bad. He then said he was going buy oil to change the oil in his car. While he was gone I made dinner. Chicken herb tortellini and salad. He kind of just saw what I made and plopped into the chair and sulked. I knew he didn't like what I made. I was also hurt he didn't show any appreciation for the dinner I made. I think I was more hurt he didn't appreciate that I made dinner. he just sat there staring at it as if I put something really disgusting in front of his face. I made what was left in the fridge and was trying to save money by not buying more food. I wanted to use up what we had. He then went on and on about how he said he wanted sausage. Well, I told him before he left I was making the pasta and he didn't say anything about sausage, so I thought he was ok with the pasta. he kept saying he needs energy and pasta isn't enough food. So, I said I'll make the sausage if your still hungry. he said 'no, i'll just be tired and weak.' That made me angry. If he wants something else I would be happy to make it. But when I went to go make him or buy him something else, he has to complain about it and say no. So, if I don't make it then he still complains. turned into a stupid arguement and him saying 'oh - things are just great aren't they..' insinuating that we were arguing and our relationship is horrible. Ok - what the heck is going on here?Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?After he acted like that to me, I would have given him what cannibals give to their spouses at dinner time%26quot; THE COLD SHOULDER%26quot;, I wonder how he would have enjoyed that instead of a delicious home cooked meal,LOL!!Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?This is not normal. He is acting like an ungrateful brat! My husband would NEVER do this! I can't believe how rude he was to you. He needs to shape up if you are going to get married. He needs to grow up! Good Luck!Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?Coming from a guy here! Sometimes we get a little pissy! Just let him get over it and things should be fine. And then when he's over it, talk to him about it (tomorrow may be better than today). It happens sometimes and it should pass. Neither one of you are right or wrong. Just kiss and make up and move onFiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?about the dinner, guys usually like something simple..like steak, sausage, or pizza. they don't like something that they've never seen or can't pronounce. i'm sure you are trying...but trying to make something %26quot;fancy%26quot; is a waste of your effort.Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?this is normal, don't ever discuss important matters before you put food into a man's belly
any older wife will tell you.
[guys usually like meat more than any other food]Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?No offense he sounds like a tit baby. Next time let him fix his own sausages and offer him nothing. Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?Getting the papers in was important to him. Do you hear that? Him appreciating dinner was important to you, but he can't appreciate right now because he's let down and angry about the papers. Who's right? Doesn't matter because right now you're both losing. So, say you understand him and live to fight another day. You two ought to go for a little communication skills counseling. Conflict will be a part of life. You two aren't handling it well. Good luck.Fiance and I just argued over dinner - who is right?I think that he was already in a bad mood before you even sat down for dinner because you did not send in the paperwork. It was obviously something that was important to him...and it should be important to you if you are trying to buy a house right now. You could have gotten the stuff together and said you would mail it tomorrow - or gotten it all together and said, %26quot;While you are out getting oil can you put this in the mailbox?%26quot;
In regards to him not liking dinner - I think he was just still sulking after the issue with the paperwork. However, the way that he handled the situation wasn't the best. Saying, %26quot;Fine I'll just be tired and weak%26quot; is silly, especially after you offered to make the sausage for him.
He should have had more respect for the dinner that you made and your offer to make whatever he wanted and you should have had more respect for the fact that he wanted that paperwork to be turned in. It goes both ways.
