I found this article on the internet that I thought was sooo funny but yet true to some. Give me your opinion of it.
Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.
I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...
I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
RESPONSE
Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth %26quot;Babyface%26quot; Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could%26gt; never%26gt; date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about blackWhy do black men consider white women too easy?Those people both need to get over themselves.
While I find it harder sometimes to attract black women than white women, once I do the operating procedure to getting them to give up the goods are pretty much the same. Women are women, regardless of their race. Both those people in the example you stated live at the mercy of their own prejudices and are weaklings which is why I say they need to get over themselves.Why do black men consider white women too easy?White women have loose vaginas
I bang. I dont like.Why do black men consider white women too easy?yep
and black women are still saying they are loyal to their black mensWhy do black men consider white women too easy?Gyal yuh write too much shyt!!Why do black men consider white women too easy?yeah i've seen this article before
but the guy that she's marrying seems weak
anyways. no black woman wanted him.
that's why he is with her now.
the black guy in the second response is right
on point.Why do black men consider white women too easy?Most white women dont give me the time of day. The ones that do are always fat ones with low Iqs and no self esteem. Easy pickings for a brotha like me.Why do black men consider white women too easy?I am not reading your essay.Why do black men consider white women too easy?Because white women will sleep with anything even their own brothers they will sleep with!Why do black men consider white women too easy?some wommen are easy.
@ Silver Dragon
I know you're allie, cause i just blocked ya.
have a a nice day.Why do black men consider white women too easy?wow didn't read all of that lol
but even i know white chicks are easiest, i've had some of those crazy b1ches try to make out with me, i don't role that ***** way
white chicks are easier than any woman in the world
they have no standards and they are trash(not all but most)Why do black men consider white women too easy?white women are sexy.
black women are too ghetto fab.Why do black men consider white women too easy?This whole post and all the people who answered are full of it.Why do black men consider white women too easy?I have two boy cousins and a brother I grew up with. They told me from their experience with dating white women is; they give good head, easy to sleep with and always try to buy their love. But, after they get their nut off and come up on some easy money they always go back to african queens.Why do black men consider white women too easy?I think both those letter writers, and most of the Answerers to your questions are ignorant racists and sexists.
I work in OB/GYN.....and believe me when I tell you neither race has the right to claim the moral high ground in this matter. And.....why even make an issue of it? These men who claim %26quot;white women are easy%26quot; are also sleeping around. How is that any better? The men who negatively judge the women who sleep with them are quite boorish.Why do black men consider white women too easy?Not into black guys Sorry.
Both those people are morons.
Edit: I don't really mean anything against black guys, I just don't tend to like them in that way, and i don't like the stereotype. Plus I think most black American guys are too arrogant anyways, thinking that everyone wants them O__oWhy do black men consider white women too easy?Look at popular music culture and the way that black women dress and the way they dance. You can hardly consider these girls %26quot;good churching going girls%26quot;. They can barely keep their clothes on and are too busy flashing their **** at anything that moves regardless of color or gender.
And how screwed is it that some people base their partner on color?Why do black men consider white women too easy?That article was sent to me last year by a brother who read it and critiqued that white woman's nonsense to no end.Why do black men consider white women too easy?Because the trashiest white women are the ones who pursue black men the hardest.
Not saying there are never non-trashy white women who date black men.Just saying the ones who are thirsty to date a black guy are trashy and probably have loose vaginae also.
Like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.Why do black men consider white women too easy?Just the fat white women are easy.
